Used to believe the same thing until my sister's wedding. Her florist explained how some flowers are just bred for looks, not to last. Seeing her bouquet fall apart before the first dance really made it click. What changed your view on it?
Come on, it's just flowers. They're gonna be dead in a week anyway, so who cares if they start a day early. People get way too worked up about this stuff. It's a wedding, not a flower endurance test.