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2h ago

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My buddy kept insisting I watch Dark on Netflix, told me I had to stick with it past episode 3. I almost quit after the first one but he was right, it ended up being one of the best shows I've seen all year. Has anyone else had a friend force them through a slow start that paid off big time?

Used to be the exact opposite honestly. I was the guy who would drop a show after 15 minutes if it didn't grab me immediately. Dark changed that for me too though. I almost quit after the first episode because I had no idea what was going on with all the characters looking the same. Eventually listened to a friend and pushed through and now it's one of my all time favorites.

20h ago

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Sitting in my car after a mediation in Austin last fall, I realized I'd missed a material clause in a settlement draft that cost my client $12,000 in fees.

Yeah but @oliviagrant makes a solid point about too much red just becoming noise. If your assistant is flagging everything red, how do you know which clauses actually need your full attention versus the ones that are just going to be standard boilerplate? I've seen teams where every single clause gets highlighted and then nothing stands out anymore. What would you say is the one thing that made your assistant start flagging everything red in the first place?

1d ago

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Client asked me to match a 1980s kitchen cabinet stain that was long discontinued

Four hours mixing toner sounds like a personal choice, not a hostage situation. Whenever a client starts talking about a discontinued stain from the 80s, that's the first red flag they're not gonna actually use it. Next time just hand them the Sherwin-Williams fan deck and let them pick something off the shelf. If they lie about what they want, that's on them not you. People do weird stuff with their kitchens and trying to match old mystery stains is usually a losing game anyway.

1d ago

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That influencer who swore by the $100 face oil made me break out for a month straight

Saw a dermatologist on YouTube say something like 90% of skincare benefits come from sunscreen and a basic moisturizer, everything else is just extras. Your story lines up with @thomas_martinez point about boring basics being the real MVP. I fell for a $50 vitamin C serum from some Instagram ad once, turned my whole routine into a mess for weeks. Swapped it out for a $8 tube of generic niacinamide from the pharmacy and my skin was back to normal in no time. The hype machine just preys on people wanting a quick fix, but your mileage may vary every single time.

2d ago

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Pro tip: watch the prepayment penalty clauses on private money loans

5% of the remaining balance" is brutal, I always negotiate a straight flat fee instead.