Why does nobody talk about how running alone can mess with your head?

I've been training by myself for months, and sometimes the quiet just gets to me. It feels like my brain starts overthinking every step, which kills my drive. Is pushing through solo really the best way, or are we ignoring the mental toll?

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scott.simon1mo ago

Yeah, the quiet is the hardest part. Your own thoughts get way too loud after a few miles. I've found mixing in a group run once a week, even just a casual one, can sort of reset your brain. It doesn't fix everything, but it stops the solo grind from feeling quite so heavy.

ray_hernandez1mo ago

But what if that group run does more than just break up the week? It gives your solo runs a job... like you're practicing the quiet to get better for the next chat with friends. Your brain starts looking for things to tell them later, a weird bird you saw or a tough hill, instead of just chewing on the same old thoughts. That little shift turns the quiet from an enemy into a tool you're learning to use. It doesn't make the silence go away, but it gives you a reason to be in it that isn't just fighting yourself.

scott.simon1mo ago

It's like most things, doing them alone makes you overthink. A little shared time now and then stops you from just trying to chip away at the quiet by yourself.