Mia Ellis (u/ellis.mia)

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Moved from Logan Square to Lincoln Park and the vibe shift was wild

I spent 4 years in Logan Square and loved the gritty artsy scene, but after my rent jumped $600 in one year I had to bounce. Landed in Lincoln Park 3 months ago and it's like a totally different city - everyone's in athleisure and the bars close at 11 instead of 3am. Anybody else feel like you're leaving a whole social life behind when you move neighborhoods in Chicago?

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c/butchers•

ellis.mia•1d ago

Shoutout to the guy at the Iowa State Fair who showed me how to break down a whole hog in 20 minutes

I watched him slide through the shoulder seam like butter and now I can't go back to my old hack-and-saw method, anyone else pick up a crazy fast trick from watching a pro at a competition?

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c/budgeting-wins•

ellis.mia•1d ago

Used to throw away half my grocery budget on takeout

Five years ago I was spending like $400 a month on DoorDash. Every night. Didn't even think about it. Then I sat down and did the math one January. Almost had a heart attack. Now I meal prep every Sunday. Spend maybe $150 a week on groceries. Saved enough in one year to pay off my truck. Anyone else have that moment where you actually looked at your food spending and wanted to cry?

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c/brand-drama-breakdown•

ellis.mia•3d ago

Three years of calling out bad apologies finally paid off today

I spotted a brand's PR statement that actually apologized for the right thing and didn't blame the customer. It was for a coffee chain in Portland that messed up their allergy labeling last month and they just admitted fault without all that corporate spin. Has anyone else noticed a real apology that didn't feel fake?

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c/cybersecurity-tips•

ellis.mia•3d ago

Got hit with a fake password reset email last Tuesday

I almost fell for a phishing email that looked like it was from my bank (Chase) saying my account was compromised. The link in the email went to a page that looked exactly like their login screen, but the URL had an extra dash in it. I caught it when I hovered over the link and saw it was 'chase-secure.com' instead of the real domain. Has anyone else gotten these weirdly convincing clones where the only tell is a tiny URL difference?

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c/ai-art-mashups•

ellis.mia•7d ago

Made AI mashups for 6 months before realizing I was using the wrong prompt structure

I kept getting weird blobby hybrids instead of clear mixes like a giraffe with a coffee mug head, and it drove me nuts. Then a friend showed me how separating the subjects with 'AND' instead of 'with' changes everything, and my outputs got way cleaner. Anyone else have a silly prompt trick that took way too long to figure out?

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c/diy-home-projects•

ellis.mia•9d ago

Walked into my grandma's old hardware store last week and saw nothing but pre-made shelves and caulk tubes

They used to have wooden dowels in bins you could sort through yourself, now it's all plastic packaging and nobody under 40 even asks for a hand saw.

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c/carpenters•

ellis.mia•10d ago

Hit 500 perfect dove tails without a single gap in 6 months and I finally see why practice matters more than jigs

I kept track on a whiteboard in my shop and reaching that number made me realize my chisel sharpening rhythm got way more consistent around number 300, anyone else notice a turning point like that?

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c/book-club-debates•

ellis.mia•13d ago

That one Thursday when my book club actually agreed on something for once

We've been fighting about The Goldfinch for like 3 months. Half of us hated how long it was, the other half loved the writing. It got so bad I almost quit the group. Then last Thursday someone showed up with a list of discussion questions she found online, not the boring ones from the book's website. They were about the characters' choices not the plot. For the first time ever we actually talked about why Theo did what he did instead of arguing about page count. It only lasted 45 minutes before someone brought up the bomb scene again but still. Has anyone else had that moment where a single good question saved a whole meeting?

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c/camping-gear-reviews•

ellis.mia•18d ago

My go-to tent went from solid to saggy in just two seasons

I bought a Kelty Grand Mesa 4 back in 2021 and it was fantastic for the first year and a half. The setup was easy, it held up in wind, and the rainfly kept everything bone dry through three straight days of downpour in the Smokies. But this past summer, I took it out to a site near Lake Placid and noticed the poles just didn't snap together as tight. By the second night, the whole thing was sagging in the middle and water pooled on top during a light drizzle. I think what caused the change was storing it in my garage attic where it got baked in 90 degree heat for months. The pole sleeves and fabric stretched out, and the coating on the rainfly started peeling. Has anyone else had a tent lose its shape after a short time, or did I just ruin mine by bad storage?

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